I am thinking of rehoming some of my birds. I (use to be WE but hubby works out of state now and is gone for 58 hours a week and doesn't have time for his birds-the conures) have 13 and thinking of rehoming all but 5. I am keeping: 2 lovebirds, 2 linnies, and a cockatiel.
But...this is breaking my heart :o( This is why I can't decide what I want/need to do:
My day starts at 5AM. I am up, showered/bathed, had coffee, and ready to accept daycare kids by 5:45.
7:30 my mom comes for her shift to start. We divide the day in half so I get some time to get some stuff done and some time for her to get some stuff done. She stays until 11:30, then it is my turn to take care of the kids. Right now we only have my nephew and 3 school aged little girls.
Between 7:30-11:30 I am scrambling to get:
- Leelee's school schedule done (he does cyber school but needs a detailed schedule. Due to his Asperger's he needs everything written out and explained to him.)
- Birds up, birds fed, birds bathed. Buddy the Jenday Conure is a plucker so he gets sprayed everyday and sits under his UVA lamp.
- Next comes cleaning the kitchen-unloading the dishwasher, loading the dishwasher, cleaning the counter tops, sweeping the floor, and I usually wipe the floor with a wet rag.
- Next is the living room-furniture gets wiped, rugs get picked up and given a good shake (I have rag rugs under each cage door to catch crumbs and poop. Then when I can't stand to look at the rugs splattered with poop any longer, they get tossed into the washing machine), and floors get swept. I scrub any where that a bird missed the rug and pooped on the floor.
- Next is the bathroom-counter gets wiped, toilet gets swished and the tub gets wiped. Then I scoop the litter pan and sweep/wash the floor.
- At this time it is usually 9:30 and I let my mom have a smoke break.
- Then it is back upstairs to clean the bird room and cages. 3 cages get broken down and scrubbed in the bath tub. 2 out of the 5 cages in that room get scrubbed only once a week because they are for sleeping only. After cages are scrubbed, tables get wiped down and then it is time to vacuum the room.
- On to my room, I just make my bed and tidy that room.
- By this time it is 11:30 and time for me to go to work. I make lunch, feed my son and my nephew, throw a load or 2 of laundry in, play with my nephew...etc until 2:30 when he leaves.
- 2:30 til 3:30 is MY TIME! I try to use this time to relax and play on the computer. But, if I have errands to run, this is usually the time I do it.
I have to mention here that mornings are also times I run errands if I have any such as doctors appts and the like. So, none of the above get done except for feeding the birds.
- 3:45 is when one of my little daycare girls gets off the school bus. But, she's been here since she was 8 weeks old, she's now 9-almost 10. So, she comes in, has a snack and starts her homework. At this time I am folding and putting away laundry.
- 4:30-6:30 is when I cook dinner and spend time with my little birds. When my daughter starts to feel better, this is when we will go out to feed her horse which takes about an hour.
- 6:45-Hubby comes home.
- 6:30-7:30-we eat dinner, clean up from dinner, get ready for tomorrow and put birds to bed.
- 7:30-Peanut and I go to bed.
- 9:00-Peanut goes in his cage and I go to bed.
I have not had a chance to do anything with the big birds. When hubby worked 3rd shift, he was able to spend a lot of time, and I mean hours, with the big birds. Now, they get less than 45 minutes of his time a day, except for weekends.
They can not thrive on that! And, Gibby is very aggressive towards me and since they share a cage, that means I can't reach into their cage to do ANYTHING in there! I have to trick him just to put their food bowls in there. :o(
Am I being too anal about cleaning my home? Yes, probably but I have to keep up with the food mess and dog hair that accumalates daily or else we will be walking on seed hulls and such. My family likes to walk around the house barefoot...and I have some pretty proficient food flingers.
I made a T-perch today and started training Gibby to just accept the perch being near him. If I can just get him away from his cage, I can put more toys in, clean it, etc. But, again-where do I find the time to do that?
Hmm, I just had a thought.......I could set out what I want in their cage for hubby to put in before putting the Suns to bed! :o) And, if I can successfully train Gibby to step up on the T-perch, I can get him into the kitchen to bathe and eat with us!
Hubby is the one that cleans the big cages, but if I get a hand held steam cleaner, considering Gibby is tolerable to the T-perch, I can clean the big cages!!
It's not like I'll be watching my nephew forever. The girls I watch will be growing up and not needing me anymore. After they leave, that is it...........I will be officially retired from daycare! WOOT!! :o)
But...the thought of only having 5 birds is appealling to me. Is that selfish? Or is it more selfish to keep all them knowing that they aren't getting the attention and stimulation they need and deserve?
And what about the remaining birds? Will they forever wonder where everyone went? And, will they forever worry that they are next?
Do I think too much? Heeheehee
Is it wrong to use Doritos as a reinforcer for stepping up on the T-perch? Yeah, probably LOL
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